Your dreams of having a happy life with him get shattered when your boyfriend decides to dump you. It really hurts when he says he no longer loves you. These are thing that is repeatedly happening around us. Gone through a breakup is not something new but it is common when you read in magazines or it is also happening to those around you. Like others you also need to take a strong stand to face this bad phase of life in your life and come out of it as early as you possible can.
• You would be surrounded by all types of questions in your mind during such situation. The main question which comes up is why it happened to you? The life has been so smooth always then you asked 'why me?' You would have to find the answers to these questions yourself as it is not necessary that your partner would listen to you in such circumstances.
• You should never blame yourself for getting dumped. If your partner really cared about you then it was his/her responsibility to sort things out and make the relationship work no matter what comes in between.
• If you feel like crying in these times then go ahead and cry till you start feeling light. You should just bring all the grief out of you by shouting and screaming if you must. I would say this is a lot better then going into depression for long period of time.
• In these times some people even start taking drugs, having unprotected and excessive sex, getting heavily drunk to forget their ex. But this is never a solution to these kinds of situations. Rather these unhealthy outlets would spoil your life completely and it would be difficult for you to recover.
• You should try to be in group of friends. You need not to share your personal feeling about your breakup so do not make your personal life public. As people would make it a topic of gossip and that would hurt you even more. This would keep on reminding you again and again that you have been dumped and things won’t ease out for you.
• Books are always one’s best friend. In this situation you should read up some information on relationship related books. Read books and articles on how to come out of the situation when your partner dumps you. Life is full of new hopes and opportunities. So come out of it and grab them.
Thursday, June 24, 2010
Sunday, June 13, 2010
How to Talk Dirty to Drive Him Wild
You have the power to drive your guy wild in the bedroom even if he's conservative; you never know that your guy loves it! If you can put more fires to talk dirty to him it adds excitement and also spices up your lovemaking.
Have you ever tried to spice up things a little? Men love their woman in cute underwear, of course for his eyes only, consider making him satisfied and happy in bed. Share intimate moments talking dirty to him he will feel admired.
If you are new to this, saying dirtiest thing is not what I mean or what comes to your mind. Most men know what his partner wants and will gladly response and give it. Men want excitement so make his fantasy come true and give him an unforgettable moment.
Women are curious too and want to know the secret of how to talk dirty with the man she is with, but you can't master it in a day or two or within 24 hours. By talking dirty it serves as a bridge between you and your partner. Find out what he likes and what makes him excited and give in to him. Say those things and he will sweep you into his arms.
Lure him in the mood and put on your revealing lingerie. Drive him wild but make sure you feel good as well. Talking dirty is fun and romantic and also a form of good communication. Take this opportunity to give your man compliments and he will reward you. Tell him sweet things like you are attracted to him will surely make him feel good and he will love you even more.
Read more information on how to talk dirty to a guy
Have you ever tried to spice up things a little? Men love their woman in cute underwear, of course for his eyes only, consider making him satisfied and happy in bed. Share intimate moments talking dirty to him he will feel admired.
If you are new to this, saying dirtiest thing is not what I mean or what comes to your mind. Most men know what his partner wants and will gladly response and give it. Men want excitement so make his fantasy come true and give him an unforgettable moment.
Women are curious too and want to know the secret of how to talk dirty with the man she is with, but you can't master it in a day or two or within 24 hours. By talking dirty it serves as a bridge between you and your partner. Find out what he likes and what makes him excited and give in to him. Say those things and he will sweep you into his arms.
Lure him in the mood and put on your revealing lingerie. Drive him wild but make sure you feel good as well. Talking dirty is fun and romantic and also a form of good communication. Take this opportunity to give your man compliments and he will reward you. Tell him sweet things like you are attracted to him will surely make him feel good and he will love you even more.
Read more information on how to talk dirty to a guy
Monday, June 7, 2010
You Need to Move On Without Him in Your Life
It can be devastating to move on without him after you both been through in the relationship. Unless you have seen this coming for quite some time, chances are your ex still has feelings for you (even if to you he claims he doesn't.)
First, stop feeling sorry for yourself. Stop thinking you can't live without him because that's just not true. It's painful to be without someone when you have been with them for so long but life does have to move on. This is important to keep in mind as you begin to deal with the other issues in your life.
Second, stop talking to your ex for a while. That means don't call or intentionally try to see him. Give them time to miss you. It's a start that they are still asking about you through mutual friends. However, just because you know this information, don't intentionally go see him. You want them to miss you.
Third, do some soul searching and find out how come you feel the way you do without him in your life. Do you have reasons to believe he is cheating on you? Have you caught him in the act? Have you been cheated on previously before your current ex? Emotional baggage from previous relationships can hurt current ones. So it's time to evaluate things and find out what is causing all these trust issues? Are there reasons you are checking his phone? Pure jealousy isn't always the cause.
Fourth, during this time of space, do something to improve yourself. Give yourself a makeover... both physically and emotionally. Make yourself more attractive and confident. You have to remember that damage from the past relationship doesn’t go away overnight. You have to work on fixing them. Why not do it with some style?
Fifth, one of the biggest things women who are jealous or insecure fail to realize is that their ex has a past. He has female friends and some may be his ex. Does this mean he wants them back? Absolutely not. Yet, it's history that he chooses not to ignore. Besides having friends of the opposite can be good for your relationship.
Sixth, get out with some friends. Go to the club scenes once you have gotten all your makeovers. If you don’t feel like it, force yourself in the beginning. Before too long you’ll be having fun before you know it.
Seventh, once you've been through this period of separation without him in your life, don't go begging for another chance. You get better results that way instead of acting like an insane woman he regretted being with in the first place. You will have to prove to him that you have indeed change. What good is it if you get him back but fall back into your old habits? You need to change for good.
Lastly, be prepared to move on without him in your life. Sometimes the damage that has been done is more than both of you can fix. While you may still love him, it's not enough to fix the damage. It may be hard to do but it can be done.
First, stop feeling sorry for yourself. Stop thinking you can't live without him because that's just not true. It's painful to be without someone when you have been with them for so long but life does have to move on. This is important to keep in mind as you begin to deal with the other issues in your life.
Second, stop talking to your ex for a while. That means don't call or intentionally try to see him. Give them time to miss you. It's a start that they are still asking about you through mutual friends. However, just because you know this information, don't intentionally go see him. You want them to miss you.
Third, do some soul searching and find out how come you feel the way you do without him in your life. Do you have reasons to believe he is cheating on you? Have you caught him in the act? Have you been cheated on previously before your current ex? Emotional baggage from previous relationships can hurt current ones. So it's time to evaluate things and find out what is causing all these trust issues? Are there reasons you are checking his phone? Pure jealousy isn't always the cause.
Fourth, during this time of space, do something to improve yourself. Give yourself a makeover... both physically and emotionally. Make yourself more attractive and confident. You have to remember that damage from the past relationship doesn’t go away overnight. You have to work on fixing them. Why not do it with some style?
Fifth, one of the biggest things women who are jealous or insecure fail to realize is that their ex has a past. He has female friends and some may be his ex. Does this mean he wants them back? Absolutely not. Yet, it's history that he chooses not to ignore. Besides having friends of the opposite can be good for your relationship.
Sixth, get out with some friends. Go to the club scenes once you have gotten all your makeovers. If you don’t feel like it, force yourself in the beginning. Before too long you’ll be having fun before you know it.
Seventh, once you've been through this period of separation without him in your life, don't go begging for another chance. You get better results that way instead of acting like an insane woman he regretted being with in the first place. You will have to prove to him that you have indeed change. What good is it if you get him back but fall back into your old habits? You need to change for good.
Lastly, be prepared to move on without him in your life. Sometimes the damage that has been done is more than both of you can fix. While you may still love him, it's not enough to fix the damage. It may be hard to do but it can be done.
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