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Friday, May 6, 2011

What Are The Signs Ex Wants You Back

Do you know what are the signs ex wants you back? If you don't then you need to learn them or you could lose your relationship forever.

So what should you be looking for? Is your ex suddenly turning up everywhere you go? I don't mean in a way that would suggest stalking you but in a casual just happened to be at the same place type way? Don't forget that your ex knows you intimately so it wouldnt be difficult to work out where you are going to be. The fact he/she is making this effort to find you would suggest he or she wants you back.

Is he or she always smiling and well dressed? Again these are big clues that they want to rekindle romance with you as the advice is always to appear happy and well turned out as nobody wants to be with someone miserable.

Have they taken to calling or texting you about little things? Are they looking for excuses to talk to you? If this is the case, this is the strongest signal yet that they want you back. Do you want them back? If so, why not ask them to meet and sit down and have a chat. I don't believe in the rule that you should always wait for the other person to make the first move. You could end up waiting your entire life and that would be a waste for everyone involved.

On the other hand you could find that your ex has disappeared into the sunset and is not to be found. This could also be a sign that they want you back but are following the "absence makes the heart grow fonder" approach. I don't understand why people bother with this technique as if you are not available to talk, how can you fix a problem in your relationship? But a lot of counselors suggest it as a way of dealing with a break up and unfortunately their clients listen. Worse still, some people will advise your ex to start dating someone else in the hope that this makes you jealous. I don't know about you but I would get angry if my ex did this to me but I suppose it would get my attention. I would never suggest to anyone they try this tactic as it could so easily backfire and it is never right to play with another person's emotions.

If you are looking for more hints on how to get your ex back, you should read the Magic of Making Up by T W Jackson. Just head over and read the testimonials to see how often this book has helped couples get back on track on the road to relationship happiness. Couples just don't say together through luck. Those in happy partnerships are there because they work at it and spend time together helping to deepen the bond that began with the initial attraction. If you want your ex back, go and get them and work together to try and find a way to rekindle the love and passion you both once shared.

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

How to Fix a Broken Relationship?

How do you go about fixing a broken relationship? There are times when circumstances may force you to break up with your partner in spite of how you feel about the matter. The more you think about your ex, the greater will be your desire to fix your broken relationship. There are some useful tips that will help you in case you would like to restore your broken relationship.

Let go

In case a break-up is imminent, you will just make matters worse by trying as much as you possibly can to stop the situation. Letting go will in the end work in your favor, as you will appear more mature.

Be smart

There is hardly anybody who would like to go out with a shabby-looking partner. So, the manner in which you dress will help you to win back your ex. You should be smart as a whole, and you should consider what your ex likes as you dress up in order to get the required attention. This will help in making your ex miss and long for you.

Once you are smarter than she expects, you should not start running after your ex. Try to lead the life you led before you met in the first place, or you may give an appearance of desperation, which will just work to your disadvantage.

Remember that when you get the attention of others, your ex will notice you as well. Be charming. In this way, you will be able to attract your ex back without doing any chasing. Your ex should be ready for a re-union.

As you carry out these steps, you should not try to copy anyone. Just be your own self. After all, that is what your ex had fallen for in the beginning. Do not go after your ex at the expense of your own individuality.

This, however, does not mean that you should not make any adjustments in your life. There are important changes that you will need to make, but these changes will just enhance your real self, not sacrifice it.

Another important step in winning back your ex heart is to be warm and welcoming. Trying to avoid your ex will not help matters.

Getting your ex boyfriend back does not require just sitting around. You will need to work hard at it. When you go about it the right way, you will succeed in fix that broken relationship. However, you should be prepared for the fact that you will not always succeed in your endeavor. Accept the outcome and go on with your life.

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Easy Steps to Talking Dirty to Your Husband

If you have been married for a long time and have never tried talking dirty to your husband, you may feel intimidated by the very thought of inviting it into your love life.

In married life you tend to fall into set roles. Once the initial couple of years of passion have passed, all the distractions and compulsions of daily life might sap you of so much energy, you hardly have time for sex; leave alone innovations!

You might also feel shy or apprehensive about suddenly stepping out of your usual mold. What will your husband feel about you donning a new, risqué role?

Will he be shocked? Will he welcome it with open arms or will he treat you with suspicion?

Dirty Talk Can Give You More Freedom

Getting started can often be the biggest hurdle you will face. But once you are past this starting trouble, the two of you will come to truly enjoy the honesty and openness of being able to talk dirty to each other. You just have to give yourself, and each other, the permission to start.

Here are some ways to make it easier to introduce dirty talk into you marriage:

1. Create an Ambience for Love

When you make an effort to make a beautiful space, it sends out its own signals. Light some candles; dim the lights; put on some sexy music for dancing; decorate the room with exotic flowers; scent the room with his favorite perfume…

Setting up an atmosphere for sex will make him feel special, wanted and sexy.

It will also put you in a special mood where you want to please and are ready to be pleased yourself. This will make it easier for you to open up.

When you prepare the bedroom, let everything emanate an erotic message: sexy scents; satin sheets; lacy lingerie laid out; an erotic book in view… The scene will speak for itself and lend to your mood.

2. Tease Him!

Men are usually expected to stay in control of themselves at all times. Being teased to the point of loosing control can be an exhilarating experience for your man.

Men love to be sexually teased, so go ahead and pamper him. Tell him what you are going to do to him when he can’t do anything about it. Get him slavering over what you say to him, until you actually make it happen.

3. Tell Him What You Need

Explicitly and in great detail, tell you partner what you want him to do to you, or what you want to do to him. Nothing can be more exciting to your man than directly hearing it from your lips.

When you talk dirty about your wants and desires, you are making a powerful expression of your sexuality. It will turn you into a veritable sex goddess in his eyes!

Remember to stay within your comfort zone. Sensual words can be used extremely effectively in combination with your body talk without making you feel embarrassed.

4. Get Him to Reveal What He wants

This is how you involve him in your talk dirty and make it more comfortable and exciting for both of you.

Ask him leading questions on what he wants you to do and then act on his answers and then ask him with a sly, knowing smile, “like that?” Guaranteed to drive him crazy!

Get more explicit as you go along. Use different words to describe your bodies and the actions that turn you on to him.

Now you know these 4 simple steps to introduce talking dirty in your marriage, you can start making your husband comfortable with it. As you become more accomplished at it, you will find your love life taking on an entirely new sensuous dimension. Read more? Go here: http://www.how-to-talk-dirty-to-your-boyfriend.com/

Monday, March 14, 2011

Secret Skills You Need to Get a Boyfriend - Useful Tips Here

Have you been longing to find the perfect man but just don't have much luck in the boyfriend department? Does it feel like guys are just not interested in you? Are you the only one in your friend group that doesn't have a boyfriend? Perhaps it's time you developed some new skills that might help you to get a date.

It is actually possible to acquire new skills that can help you to overcome the obstacles that you face when trying to find a boyfriend. You can make some mental and physical changes, become more motivated, plus a few more ideas and you will be on your way to having that special man in your life.

You may be thinking that it's always the boy’s fault that you haven't found your mr right, but you also need to consider that it could be something that you are doing. Perhaps you are very shy and find it difficult to approach a man can initiate conversation. When you first meet a guy, he doesn't know the real you and only see's the outer girl, so he may not realize that you are very shy and might mistake your shyness for being a bit snobby or stand offish. This can possibly turn a guy off and he may never get to know the real you. It isn't easy meeting new people, particularly of the opposite sex, if you are a shy person so this may be the first obstacle that you need to overcome.

Look at your body language

You need to consider your body language and behavior as these could give the wrong message to a potential boyfriend. If you are shy and withdrawn, men may see you as not approachable, but if you are outgoing and friendly then it will be reciprocated by any men you meet. Shyness can often be mistaken for pride and coldness, although that isn't who you really are, this is what your body language and behavior may be portraying.

You might be a great person who is friendly and caring and that is fantastic, but a guy needs to know that to be attracted to you. You need to build up your self confidence so that you can show the 'real you' to everyone that you meet, rather than them miss out by not getting to know you better. If you have been rejected a number of times you may be thinking that you aren't good enough or attractive enough, but chances are that you are attractive and a great person and it may just be your body language that is letting you down.

Look at your past

Think about your past and the times when you have received compliments about your beauty, your skills, and your personality and so on. I'm sure if you think about it you will remember occasions when you have received compliments and all of these compliments are proof of your worth. Whenever you are feeling low in confidence and lacking self esteem, think back to a time when someone complimented you and it will give you a boost.

Put in an effort to be extra friendly

Even though you really are a friendly person, your shyness and lack of self confidence may stop you from being outgoing and as friendly as you could be. Put in an effort to be friendly more by doing simple things like smiling at a stranger, greeting people with a 'good morning' or helping someone whenever you have the opportunity. Try to do these little things as often as you can and you will soon become more comfortable talking to strangers. This is a big skill for you to use to meet a nice guy.

You need to develop the skill of initiating a conversation with someone and by saying hello and smiling at a stranger is a good place to start. You can also ask questions about a product you want to buy instead of just picking it up and buying it. By asking questions you are initiating a conversation with the shop assistant and helping to develop your new skill.

It is a matter of practising and developing your social skills to overcome your shyness and be a little more outgoing. Men will soon look at you in a different way and will be more likely to approach you and begin a conversation. You will soon find yourself having more fun, being happier and others will see you happier and they will enjoy your company.

When you develop your social skills you will soon find yourself fighting guys off and will have the pick of the bunch. It isn't always easy to change the way that you are, but with a bit of practise you will soon have those skills you need.