Knowing the critical rules for calling the guy you're dating can make it or break it. Do you want to build a healthy calling patterns with the guy in your life? Is so, you will greatly benefit from remembering these three essential rules for calling any man in your life.
Calling Rule In Dating #1
You met a guy and he tried to know more about y ou and he gave you his cell number, you must remember the circumstances that brought you both together and you were introduced to know about him. You need to ask, was it solely a business interest or a personal interest? If the answer was a business interest, dialing his contact number will not hurt much. The worst is that you didnt get to close a business deal, which is still fine because not every business proposition ends up in a business deal.
Calling Rule In Dating #2
If it is not business, you should exercise cautious when contacting him first. Did you give him your number as well or did you just take his number? Did he actually offer you his number or did you ask for it? If he volunteered his number to you but did not ask you for his number, you have no better option then to call him first anyway. However you should always remember that a man who is interested in hearing from you will always ask for your contact no. to get a chance to seeing you again.
Calling Rule In Dating #3
If you have already called him and he has yet to get back to you, wait for him to call back.
On the next page you will discover proven psychological techniques which will make any man call you! If you want to know How To Make Him Call
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Thursday, June 24, 2010
How to Get Over Being Dumped
Your dreams of having a happy life with him get shattered when your boyfriend decides to dump you. It really hurts when he says he no longer loves you. These are thing that is repeatedly happening around us. Gone through a breakup is not something new but it is common when you read in magazines or it is also happening to those around you. Like others you also need to take a strong stand to face this bad phase of life in your life and come out of it as early as you possible can.
• You would be surrounded by all types of questions in your mind during such situation. The main question which comes up is why it happened to you? The life has been so smooth always then you asked 'why me?' You would have to find the answers to these questions yourself as it is not necessary that your partner would listen to you in such circumstances.
• You should never blame yourself for getting dumped. If your partner really cared about you then it was his/her responsibility to sort things out and make the relationship work no matter what comes in between.
• If you feel like crying in these times then go ahead and cry till you start feeling light. You should just bring all the grief out of you by shouting and screaming if you must. I would say this is a lot better then going into depression for long period of time.
• In these times some people even start taking drugs, having unprotected and excessive sex, getting heavily drunk to forget their ex. But this is never a solution to these kinds of situations. Rather these unhealthy outlets would spoil your life completely and it would be difficult for you to recover.
• You should try to be in group of friends. You need not to share your personal feeling about your breakup so do not make your personal life public. As people would make it a topic of gossip and that would hurt you even more. This would keep on reminding you again and again that you have been dumped and things won’t ease out for you.
• Books are always one’s best friend. In this situation you should read up some information on relationship related books. Read books and articles on how to come out of the situation when your partner dumps you. Life is full of new hopes and opportunities. So come out of it and grab them.
• You would be surrounded by all types of questions in your mind during such situation. The main question which comes up is why it happened to you? The life has been so smooth always then you asked 'why me?' You would have to find the answers to these questions yourself as it is not necessary that your partner would listen to you in such circumstances.
• You should never blame yourself for getting dumped. If your partner really cared about you then it was his/her responsibility to sort things out and make the relationship work no matter what comes in between.
• If you feel like crying in these times then go ahead and cry till you start feeling light. You should just bring all the grief out of you by shouting and screaming if you must. I would say this is a lot better then going into depression for long period of time.
• In these times some people even start taking drugs, having unprotected and excessive sex, getting heavily drunk to forget their ex. But this is never a solution to these kinds of situations. Rather these unhealthy outlets would spoil your life completely and it would be difficult for you to recover.
• You should try to be in group of friends. You need not to share your personal feeling about your breakup so do not make your personal life public. As people would make it a topic of gossip and that would hurt you even more. This would keep on reminding you again and again that you have been dumped and things won’t ease out for you.
• Books are always one’s best friend. In this situation you should read up some information on relationship related books. Read books and articles on how to come out of the situation when your partner dumps you. Life is full of new hopes and opportunities. So come out of it and grab them.
Sunday, June 13, 2010
How to Talk Dirty to Drive Him Wild
You have the power to drive your guy wild in the bedroom even if he's conservative; you never know that your guy loves it! If you can put more fires to talk dirty to him it adds excitement and also spices up your lovemaking.
Have you ever tried to spice up things a little? Men love their woman in cute underwear, of course for his eyes only, consider making him satisfied and happy in bed. Share intimate moments talking dirty to him he will feel admired.
If you are new to this, saying dirtiest thing is not what I mean or what comes to your mind. Most men know what his partner wants and will gladly response and give it. Men want excitement so make his fantasy come true and give him an unforgettable moment.
Women are curious too and want to know the secret of how to talk dirty with the man she is with, but you can't master it in a day or two or within 24 hours. By talking dirty it serves as a bridge between you and your partner. Find out what he likes and what makes him excited and give in to him. Say those things and he will sweep you into his arms.
Lure him in the mood and put on your revealing lingerie. Drive him wild but make sure you feel good as well. Talking dirty is fun and romantic and also a form of good communication. Take this opportunity to give your man compliments and he will reward you. Tell him sweet things like you are attracted to him will surely make him feel good and he will love you even more.
Read more information on how to talk dirty to a guy
Have you ever tried to spice up things a little? Men love their woman in cute underwear, of course for his eyes only, consider making him satisfied and happy in bed. Share intimate moments talking dirty to him he will feel admired.
If you are new to this, saying dirtiest thing is not what I mean or what comes to your mind. Most men know what his partner wants and will gladly response and give it. Men want excitement so make his fantasy come true and give him an unforgettable moment.
Women are curious too and want to know the secret of how to talk dirty with the man she is with, but you can't master it in a day or two or within 24 hours. By talking dirty it serves as a bridge between you and your partner. Find out what he likes and what makes him excited and give in to him. Say those things and he will sweep you into his arms.
Lure him in the mood and put on your revealing lingerie. Drive him wild but make sure you feel good as well. Talking dirty is fun and romantic and also a form of good communication. Take this opportunity to give your man compliments and he will reward you. Tell him sweet things like you are attracted to him will surely make him feel good and he will love you even more.
Read more information on how to talk dirty to a guy
Monday, June 7, 2010
You Need to Move On Without Him in Your Life
It can be devastating to move on without him after you both been through in the relationship. Unless you have seen this coming for quite some time, chances are your ex still has feelings for you (even if to you he claims he doesn't.)
First, stop feeling sorry for yourself. Stop thinking you can't live without him because that's just not true. It's painful to be without someone when you have been with them for so long but life does have to move on. This is important to keep in mind as you begin to deal with the other issues in your life.
Second, stop talking to your ex for a while. That means don't call or intentionally try to see him. Give them time to miss you. It's a start that they are still asking about you through mutual friends. However, just because you know this information, don't intentionally go see him. You want them to miss you.
Third, do some soul searching and find out how come you feel the way you do without him in your life. Do you have reasons to believe he is cheating on you? Have you caught him in the act? Have you been cheated on previously before your current ex? Emotional baggage from previous relationships can hurt current ones. So it's time to evaluate things and find out what is causing all these trust issues? Are there reasons you are checking his phone? Pure jealousy isn't always the cause.
Fourth, during this time of space, do something to improve yourself. Give yourself a makeover... both physically and emotionally. Make yourself more attractive and confident. You have to remember that damage from the past relationship doesn’t go away overnight. You have to work on fixing them. Why not do it with some style?
Fifth, one of the biggest things women who are jealous or insecure fail to realize is that their ex has a past. He has female friends and some may be his ex. Does this mean he wants them back? Absolutely not. Yet, it's history that he chooses not to ignore. Besides having friends of the opposite can be good for your relationship.
Sixth, get out with some friends. Go to the club scenes once you have gotten all your makeovers. If you don’t feel like it, force yourself in the beginning. Before too long you’ll be having fun before you know it.
Seventh, once you've been through this period of separation without him in your life, don't go begging for another chance. You get better results that way instead of acting like an insane woman he regretted being with in the first place. You will have to prove to him that you have indeed change. What good is it if you get him back but fall back into your old habits? You need to change for good.
Lastly, be prepared to move on without him in your life. Sometimes the damage that has been done is more than both of you can fix. While you may still love him, it's not enough to fix the damage. It may be hard to do but it can be done.
First, stop feeling sorry for yourself. Stop thinking you can't live without him because that's just not true. It's painful to be without someone when you have been with them for so long but life does have to move on. This is important to keep in mind as you begin to deal with the other issues in your life.
Second, stop talking to your ex for a while. That means don't call or intentionally try to see him. Give them time to miss you. It's a start that they are still asking about you through mutual friends. However, just because you know this information, don't intentionally go see him. You want them to miss you.
Third, do some soul searching and find out how come you feel the way you do without him in your life. Do you have reasons to believe he is cheating on you? Have you caught him in the act? Have you been cheated on previously before your current ex? Emotional baggage from previous relationships can hurt current ones. So it's time to evaluate things and find out what is causing all these trust issues? Are there reasons you are checking his phone? Pure jealousy isn't always the cause.
Fourth, during this time of space, do something to improve yourself. Give yourself a makeover... both physically and emotionally. Make yourself more attractive and confident. You have to remember that damage from the past relationship doesn’t go away overnight. You have to work on fixing them. Why not do it with some style?
Fifth, one of the biggest things women who are jealous or insecure fail to realize is that their ex has a past. He has female friends and some may be his ex. Does this mean he wants them back? Absolutely not. Yet, it's history that he chooses not to ignore. Besides having friends of the opposite can be good for your relationship.
Sixth, get out with some friends. Go to the club scenes once you have gotten all your makeovers. If you don’t feel like it, force yourself in the beginning. Before too long you’ll be having fun before you know it.
Seventh, once you've been through this period of separation without him in your life, don't go begging for another chance. You get better results that way instead of acting like an insane woman he regretted being with in the first place. You will have to prove to him that you have indeed change. What good is it if you get him back but fall back into your old habits? You need to change for good.
Lastly, be prepared to move on without him in your life. Sometimes the damage that has been done is more than both of you can fix. While you may still love him, it's not enough to fix the damage. It may be hard to do but it can be done.
Monday, May 24, 2010
The Time to Get Past a Broken Heart Is Now
Have you recently being dumped? You are still not able to get past a broken heart? Do you feel like there’s nothing left for you in this world now that your ex has left you? If you feel like you won’t be a whole person anymore, then it’s important that you read this.
Do you have a difficult time getting past your break up? You don't think that the world would keep moving forward and needed to know what you could do. Well, it’s true…a breakup can indeed put your world into a tailspin. Everything can seem out of control. Your job, your schooling, your family and your friends may all seem out of reach to you. However, even during this difficult time you can keep your senses straight as long as you remember these three things.
First, remind yourself everyday that life does go on and you have to stay a part of it. That means do the things you would normally do. Go to school, go to work, hang out with friends…do things that seem normal so you can get over the loss and heal your broken heart faster.
Second, figure out what you want in life. Would you like to get your ex back or would you rather move on and see if there is someone out there who is a much better match for you? It’s important that this gets figured out.
If you have chosen to move on with your life without your ex, then just remember that sitting on the couch eating bon-bons, dreaming about what once was, is not going to help you get over losing your ex or get past a broken heart.
Third, if you feel the need to, change your look. I have a good friend who said when she divorced her husband; she needed to cut off her hair. She felt as if it were a reminder of the past she didn’t want to go back to. She not only cut 10 inches off but she also colored it black. She said it was something else he did not approve of. While you don’t have to justify your change of looks, you certainly can feel better about yourself doing it.
Remember that it can be difficult to remain in control of your senses when you have been dumped. However, now you need to get past your broken heart and move forward with your future positively. You have a choice to make and the time is NOW.
Do you have a difficult time getting past your break up? You don't think that the world would keep moving forward and needed to know what you could do. Well, it’s true…a breakup can indeed put your world into a tailspin. Everything can seem out of control. Your job, your schooling, your family and your friends may all seem out of reach to you. However, even during this difficult time you can keep your senses straight as long as you remember these three things.
First, remind yourself everyday that life does go on and you have to stay a part of it. That means do the things you would normally do. Go to school, go to work, hang out with friends…do things that seem normal so you can get over the loss and heal your broken heart faster.
Second, figure out what you want in life. Would you like to get your ex back or would you rather move on and see if there is someone out there who is a much better match for you? It’s important that this gets figured out.
If you have chosen to move on with your life without your ex, then just remember that sitting on the couch eating bon-bons, dreaming about what once was, is not going to help you get over losing your ex or get past a broken heart.
Third, if you feel the need to, change your look. I have a good friend who said when she divorced her husband; she needed to cut off her hair. She felt as if it were a reminder of the past she didn’t want to go back to. She not only cut 10 inches off but she also colored it black. She said it was something else he did not approve of. While you don’t have to justify your change of looks, you certainly can feel better about yourself doing it.
Remember that it can be difficult to remain in control of your senses when you have been dumped. However, now you need to get past your broken heart and move forward with your future positively. You have a choice to make and the time is NOW.
Monday, May 17, 2010
3 Ancient Date Ideas You Can Use In The Modern World
Are you tired of rehashing the same old dating ideas? Do you want to try something different, something creative, fun and full of laughter? If so, all you have to do is revisit the ancient world. Today, we're fascinated with technology, theaters, fancy restaurants and loud bars. However, something can be said for simplicity and romance. Below you'll find 3 ancient date ideas that you can use in the modern world.
The Tree Date
You can't get any more old school than sitting in a tree. The only difference is you don't have to worry about predators looking to eat your butt! If you're a handy man or woman, this date idea is perfect.
Using some wood, create your own love nest in the bow of a tree. You can use a tree in your backyard or look for one in a forest near you. The tree house doesn't have to be elaborate to be romantic and you don't have to be Tim "The Tool Man" Taylor to build it either.
Once you've built it, stock it with an icebox, some lanterns and a few blankets. The next time you're looking for a cheap but romantic date, take your man or woman to your tree house. It's guaranteed to impress.
Medieval
Let's face it: medieval is cool. If you take out the raping, pillaging and constant threat of disease, the medieval world is a great place to get some dating ideas.
There are plenty of restaurants that cater to the medieval world. You can dress up as a damsel or knight, fight with wooden swords and drink from dented metal chalices. You could even create your own medieval world, right at home. You could rent a costume, or make one yourself.
Native American Dating
The third ancient dating idea is borrowed from the Native Americans. I'm sure you've seen pictures of the teepee. Why not take your date out for a hike, and build a lean-to? It's easy enough to do, as any boy scout will tell you. Once you've built the lean-to, build a fire. You could even go so far as creating your own rain dance! Roast marshmallows by the light of your flickering campfire, sip some wine and have an amazing time.
These three ancient dating ideas are sure to bedazzle any date. You'll look creative, handy and fun!
The Tree Date
You can't get any more old school than sitting in a tree. The only difference is you don't have to worry about predators looking to eat your butt! If you're a handy man or woman, this date idea is perfect.
Using some wood, create your own love nest in the bow of a tree. You can use a tree in your backyard or look for one in a forest near you. The tree house doesn't have to be elaborate to be romantic and you don't have to be Tim "The Tool Man" Taylor to build it either.
Once you've built it, stock it with an icebox, some lanterns and a few blankets. The next time you're looking for a cheap but romantic date, take your man or woman to your tree house. It's guaranteed to impress.
Medieval
Let's face it: medieval is cool. If you take out the raping, pillaging and constant threat of disease, the medieval world is a great place to get some dating ideas.
There are plenty of restaurants that cater to the medieval world. You can dress up as a damsel or knight, fight with wooden swords and drink from dented metal chalices. You could even create your own medieval world, right at home. You could rent a costume, or make one yourself.
Native American Dating
The third ancient dating idea is borrowed from the Native Americans. I'm sure you've seen pictures of the teepee. Why not take your date out for a hike, and build a lean-to? It's easy enough to do, as any boy scout will tell you. Once you've built the lean-to, build a fire. You could even go so far as creating your own rain dance! Roast marshmallows by the light of your flickering campfire, sip some wine and have an amazing time.
These three ancient dating ideas are sure to bedazzle any date. You'll look creative, handy and fun!
Sunday, April 11, 2010
3 Definitive Ways to Keep a Man Happy in Bed
Every woman knows if the sex passion goes sour you have a good chance of the relationship going with it. In all honesty most women know the relationship is nearing the end when your partner is no longer happy in bed. Here's a few definitive ways you can keep your man happy.
Sure some couples go through a rough time when the sex just isn’t as exciting or maybe it’s downright dull. If you want to keep your man then you have to spice up your sex life again.
Men start to stray when the sex begins boring or non existent so if you don’t want that to happen then you have to learn how to keep your man happy in bed. Take a few minutes and re-evaluate your sex life and how you can keep your partner happy when he is with you.
Do you have sex once a week or as often as possible? If you’re only having sex once every week asks yourself why? If you cannot come up with a real good reason then you need to make time or put more effort into your sex life. This is not to say the lack of sex in your relationship is your fault. There are three ways to keep you man happy in bed.
The first is to follow his lead just like dancing, only horizontal.
- If he is vocal then you be vocal.
- If he is daring and always willing to try new things then you be willing to try new things.
- If he likes to mix things up then mix them up!
The above listed ways will keep your man happy in bed assuming that you are performing at you best.
If you find that you only own one silky see through sexy lingerie then you need to buy more, men enjoy the thrill of what’s underneath even though they know what’s underneath! If you just lie there and let him do all the work, then you need to become wiser and more active in bed. It is a fact that men enjoy being in control but they also enjoy being controlled.
Boost their ego with a little dirty talk, if you lay their like a dead fish flopping around sooner or later he’s going to be turned off by this. Men need to know they are pleasuring you so it’s important to not only show them but to tell them as well.
These three simple often over looked things will indeed keep your man happy in bed and keep him from looking for a new bed!
Sure some couples go through a rough time when the sex just isn’t as exciting or maybe it’s downright dull. If you want to keep your man then you have to spice up your sex life again.
Men start to stray when the sex begins boring or non existent so if you don’t want that to happen then you have to learn how to keep your man happy in bed. Take a few minutes and re-evaluate your sex life and how you can keep your partner happy when he is with you.
Do you have sex once a week or as often as possible? If you’re only having sex once every week asks yourself why? If you cannot come up with a real good reason then you need to make time or put more effort into your sex life. This is not to say the lack of sex in your relationship is your fault. There are three ways to keep you man happy in bed.
The first is to follow his lead just like dancing, only horizontal.
- If he is vocal then you be vocal.
- If he is daring and always willing to try new things then you be willing to try new things.
- If he likes to mix things up then mix them up!
The above listed ways will keep your man happy in bed assuming that you are performing at you best.
If you find that you only own one silky see through sexy lingerie then you need to buy more, men enjoy the thrill of what’s underneath even though they know what’s underneath! If you just lie there and let him do all the work, then you need to become wiser and more active in bed. It is a fact that men enjoy being in control but they also enjoy being controlled.
Boost their ego with a little dirty talk, if you lay their like a dead fish flopping around sooner or later he’s going to be turned off by this. Men need to know they are pleasuring you so it’s important to not only show them but to tell them as well.
These three simple often over looked things will indeed keep your man happy in bed and keep him from looking for a new bed!
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