How to Talk Dirty to My Husband

How to talk dirty? Your husband one day made a request out of the blue. He wants a little bit of fun and wants you to talk dirty to him. You like to say something to make him happy but you always get the feeling of embarrassment, tongue-tied and shy and at a loss over what to say to please him.

Many women feel uncomfortable and they are embarrassed when it comes to verbal display of affection. It does not have to be so. Start simple saying something your husband loves to hear can make your relationship more fun and exciting.

You need to feel completely comfortable with yourself and in the mood with him as he is your husband. Start by telling him how you feel but make sure you are genuine and authentic. If he makes you feel good, tell him how you feel. If he makes you feel sexy and hot, tell him all in a gentle tone voice for a start. It will get easier with each time and you will be surprised how turned on he can get. It is basically telling him something he loves to hear.

A little talk dirty does spice things up in your relationship. To some men, their women talking dirty to them means a lot to them, they feel it is very important and arousing. They want to hear what their women like and want and how they feel. It involves some imagination to have fun together. If your partner is your husband, then you should not feel embarrassed.

Use careful vivid words, moans, body language to express yourself. It does not have to be going straight to say the dirtiest thing or some hard stuff and make your husband think you are crazy. You can start by whispering some sweet nothings to his ears in the middle of your lovemaking for a start.

Make your husband feel good by learning how to talk dirty to him does not come easy with most women but with more practice you will soon be so good in this department. It does take time! Words pay off so loosen up a bit now and think of something to say to him tonight.

What Not to Say While Talking Dirty - Tips for You

You should find out more even you think that you have learnt a bit about the art of how to talk dirty. There are two sides of everything. If you end up becoming over confident then you may start talking rubbish with your partner. So you have to learn what not to say while talking dirty. If you really want to be erotic and make your partner feel passionate about your dirty talks then you need to take care about both dos and don’ts. I am sure you don’t want to spoil the good sexy mood of your partner by saying the wrong things at the wrong time.


I would explain what not to say while talking dirty by example. Here is the first example. You should not talk to your partner about your menstruation cycles or your physical problems. This would truly turn him off. Never take a chance of talking to your partner about your gastric or unwell stomach problems. The passion that you would have created till now would all go in vain.

Now, here is the example number two. You should never talk to your partner about your pets or your family problems. Nobody would like to listen to these things when they're in truly sexy mood. If your pet is disturbing you by barking then you should better send it out of your bedroom. Another important thing is don’t rush into things by saying that “Lets finish it quickly I am feeling tired”. If you are tired then how can you expect your partner to feel enthusiastic about you?

Dirty talks can really improve your relationships with your partner. But you need to practice it to reach to the perfection. You can control your partner feelings or mood if you know what not to say while talking dirty.