Let’s take a look at some things you can do to keep your man happy in bed and at home every night. Many women worry that they are not satisfying their man and fear they find a woman who will. If you have been pulling your hair out trying to figure out how to keep him happy set back, relax and read on.
Imagine your own wildest sexual fantasy hear, see it, and feel it next time you’re in bed pretend that your sexual fantasy is coming to life. What would you say to him? How would you say it? Try it and just let the words and motions flow from your body.
It will be the best sex you have had. The next time round glue your man in on your fantasy and allow him to play a role and you will notice a huge difference in the sex for both of you. He wants you to enjoy sex as much as he does.
Usually the woman thinks it’s all about pleasing the man and it’s not! It is about both of you receiving pleasure from one another. Ladies the most important thing to remember is sex is for both of you and if you’re not satisfied then he is going to feel inadequate.
If you need something from him then you have to tell him he is not a mind reader. Don’t worry about hurting his feelings, he will thank you for sharing your needs with him and then both of you will be happy and communicating and communication is what holds everything together.
Just don’t try too hard to please him, let nature take its natural course and insert the extras were needed. If you try to hard he may think he’s doing something wrong and that won’t do either of you any good.
So to keep your man happy in bed, be yourself, tell him what you want and need and allow him to tell you what he needs and wants and work together to achieve it. I guarantee you’ll have a good time working on it!
Sunday, March 21, 2010
Keep Your Man Happy in Bed
Saturday, February 13, 2010
How to Talk Dirty – 7 Tips Venturing Out into Wider Territory
What do you aim to do when you dirty talk? You might have set out a scenario in your mind. You might have practiced it on your self. Or you might just try it on your partner on impulse. But surely, you do it for a reason...
Have you ever thought about why you do it? You do it to enhance pleasure, of course; both yours, as well as your partner’s.
Once you have gotten over your initial reluctance and nervousness, your doubts disappear and you start wanting to explore the full potential of dirty talking. To do this, you have to keep venturing out into newer territory to beat the boredom of doing the same thing again and again.
Tips To Help You Expand Your Dirty Talk Boundaries:
1. Make the surroundings feel right. Scented candles, dim lights, erotic music, sexy lingerie… All these are subtle invitations that will get you both in the mood. Once you are in the mood, you are more likely to be sexually adventurous.
2. Make each other feel special with sexy compliments. Tease him and flirt with him till he is totally relaxed and tuned into you. You can try dancing or cuddling when you do this, to make this part more effective.
3. Turn up the heat by linking actions to words. Start describing what you are doing to him or how you are reacting to what he is doing. Take his hand and put it on your body and as he does it, describe what he is doing to you and how it feels or how excited it is making you feel.
4. Get your partner involved in the action. Tell him you are going to do something you know he really enjoys. Ask him if he wants it, but don’t actually do it till you have him begging for it! While you are doing it, ask him if he likes it, if he wants it harder, if he wants more of it… He will start talking without even thinking about it.
5. Don’t forget that the gasps and moans and whispers you make when you are being pleasured are also intensely erotic music to his ears. You can think of it as non verbal dirty talk.
6. Once you have reached your level of comfort, start introducing dirtier words and phrases. Take the time and effort to increase your vocabulary. Not only will this make it more exciting, you will also give your partner permission to venture out into newer realms.
7. Don’t restrict dirty talking to just within your bedroom walls. Take it out into other areas of your life and use it to flirt in a public place; tease in a car; or use it in any way you can think of. The possibilities are endless.
Have you ever thought about why you do it? You do it to enhance pleasure, of course; both yours, as well as your partner’s.
Once you have gotten over your initial reluctance and nervousness, your doubts disappear and you start wanting to explore the full potential of dirty talking. To do this, you have to keep venturing out into newer territory to beat the boredom of doing the same thing again and again.
Tips To Help You Expand Your Dirty Talk Boundaries:
1. Make the surroundings feel right. Scented candles, dim lights, erotic music, sexy lingerie… All these are subtle invitations that will get you both in the mood. Once you are in the mood, you are more likely to be sexually adventurous.
2. Make each other feel special with sexy compliments. Tease him and flirt with him till he is totally relaxed and tuned into you. You can try dancing or cuddling when you do this, to make this part more effective.
3. Turn up the heat by linking actions to words. Start describing what you are doing to him or how you are reacting to what he is doing. Take his hand and put it on your body and as he does it, describe what he is doing to you and how it feels or how excited it is making you feel.
4. Get your partner involved in the action. Tell him you are going to do something you know he really enjoys. Ask him if he wants it, but don’t actually do it till you have him begging for it! While you are doing it, ask him if he likes it, if he wants it harder, if he wants more of it… He will start talking without even thinking about it.
5. Don’t forget that the gasps and moans and whispers you make when you are being pleasured are also intensely erotic music to his ears. You can think of it as non verbal dirty talk.
6. Once you have reached your level of comfort, start introducing dirtier words and phrases. Take the time and effort to increase your vocabulary. Not only will this make it more exciting, you will also give your partner permission to venture out into newer realms.
7. Don’t restrict dirty talking to just within your bedroom walls. Take it out into other areas of your life and use it to flirt in a public place; tease in a car; or use it in any way you can think of. The possibilities are endless.
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
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Monday, January 18, 2010
Dirty Talk - How to Get It Right Every Time
Dirty talking is a way to take a naughty part of your character and use it to bring some real excitement to a relationship that may be getting a little stale. If you think you are becoming bored, you can use dirty talking to make yourself seem quirky and unpredictable in a sexually attractive manner.
With dirty talking you can tease your partner into sexual readiness without even touching him. And then you make him wait for your touch until he can’t bear it anymore! The hungrier you are the better even ordinary food will taste. Do you wonder that sex gets so much more exciting when you dirty talk?
How Do You Use Dirty Talk?
- You can use dirty talk to flirt from a distance. Keep him on edge by giving him verbal sexual hints when he is busy with his normal routine.
- Use dirty talk when you are face to face to tease him to the point of readiness. Keep him hanging there for a while to drive him out of his mind!
- And of course, you can dirty talk right through sex, to heighten the intensity of a climax.
Get As Excited As He Does About Dirty Talk!
If you think that he is the only one who is going to enjoy dirty talking, think again! You are going to feel heady with the power that comes with being uninhibited and exciting.
He can turn you on and tease you and drive you wild with HIS dirty talk just as well as you can do it to him.
Dirty talking is a journey you have to set off on with your partner. Unless you can communicate enough to figure out each others likes and dislikes as you go along, it will not take you anywhere. But if you try it out, you will realize that it can help to form a powerful bond of trust and become an exciting avenue for expressing hidden feelings. If you feel satisfied in your sex life, then everything else in your life automatically looks better.
Dos and Don’ts for Dirty Talking:
- Make sure you dirty talk only when you are in the mood for it. It is not something that will turn out well if you are forced or feeling uncomfortable.
- Even if you and your lover love to dirty talk, be cautious of topics that may not only be turn offs, but also cause resentment and jealousy.
- He has no way of knowing what’s in your head unless you tell him. Before you tell him your wildest fantasy, be sure it will not make him insecure.
- Words can sometimes cruelly hurt; so if you are in doubt, simply don’t!
- Do use safe topics like erotic compliments; descriptions of what you want; how you feel; or how sexy he looks to start with.
- You can use more explicit words and more adventurous themes as you gain in experience.
Dirty talk can spice up the most mundane sex; you just have to figure out how to get it right. There is no one right way that fits everybody. If the comfort level between you and your partner is high, you are sure to go ahead without much trouble. You have to set the pace and momentum of your own personal journey.
With dirty talking you can tease your partner into sexual readiness without even touching him. And then you make him wait for your touch until he can’t bear it anymore! The hungrier you are the better even ordinary food will taste. Do you wonder that sex gets so much more exciting when you dirty talk?
How Do You Use Dirty Talk?
- You can use dirty talk to flirt from a distance. Keep him on edge by giving him verbal sexual hints when he is busy with his normal routine.
- Use dirty talk when you are face to face to tease him to the point of readiness. Keep him hanging there for a while to drive him out of his mind!
- And of course, you can dirty talk right through sex, to heighten the intensity of a climax.
Get As Excited As He Does About Dirty Talk!
If you think that he is the only one who is going to enjoy dirty talking, think again! You are going to feel heady with the power that comes with being uninhibited and exciting.
He can turn you on and tease you and drive you wild with HIS dirty talk just as well as you can do it to him.
Dirty talking is a journey you have to set off on with your partner. Unless you can communicate enough to figure out each others likes and dislikes as you go along, it will not take you anywhere. But if you try it out, you will realize that it can help to form a powerful bond of trust and become an exciting avenue for expressing hidden feelings. If you feel satisfied in your sex life, then everything else in your life automatically looks better.
Dos and Don’ts for Dirty Talking:
- Make sure you dirty talk only when you are in the mood for it. It is not something that will turn out well if you are forced or feeling uncomfortable.
- Even if you and your lover love to dirty talk, be cautious of topics that may not only be turn offs, but also cause resentment and jealousy.
- He has no way of knowing what’s in your head unless you tell him. Before you tell him your wildest fantasy, be sure it will not make him insecure.
- Words can sometimes cruelly hurt; so if you are in doubt, simply don’t!
- Do use safe topics like erotic compliments; descriptions of what you want; how you feel; or how sexy he looks to start with.
- You can use more explicit words and more adventurous themes as you gain in experience.
Dirty talk can spice up the most mundane sex; you just have to figure out how to get it right. There is no one right way that fits everybody. If the comfort level between you and your partner is high, you are sure to go ahead without much trouble. You have to set the pace and momentum of your own personal journey.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
How to Turn a Man On - Revive the Passion of Love in Him with Dirty Talk
How to turn a man on is a question most women would love to ponder upon, but getting bold and erotic is something most women would not want to try, as they have always been taught to be decent and shy.
Women have always known that love means to give selflessly, and to care for their loved ones, but the woman of today has a different image to show. She is more daring and innovative, and knows exactly how turning a man on by surprise.
The question of how to turn a man on has a simple answer and with some romance and mischief, you can be the queen of his heart. A little bit of dirty talk and some teasing will add a new lease of life into your love life.
Moreover, being mischievous does not mean you have to be clumsy. You can be decent in your approach and yet be passionate with him. Men admire women with a strong personality, and though they enjoy dirty jokes in romance, if you are awkward with your behavior, he may stop respecting you.
Most women are still uncomfortable with dirty talk, and on the contrary, men have an attraction for it. In fact, the best way to know how to turn a guy on is to learn the art of intimacy from him. Men can get really close and mischievous without making a woman feel filthy about him.
For ages, women have avoided the chances of trying out new things in a relationship due to societal norms, but at the same time, they need to understand that getting playful and intimate with men is all part of a healthy relationship.
The limitations in mischievous acts is important as most men do not know when and where to stop. As the woman, you only have to set the guidelines for him. If you interact with him on the same terms then he will know how much further he can take things forward with you.
During a session of romance, avoid being conscious in your acts, as that will make him aware of the fact that you are not comfortable and it can also make a guy feel uncomfortable too.
Women have always known that love means to give selflessly, and to care for their loved ones, but the woman of today has a different image to show. She is more daring and innovative, and knows exactly how turning a man on by surprise.
The question of how to turn a man on has a simple answer and with some romance and mischief, you can be the queen of his heart. A little bit of dirty talk and some teasing will add a new lease of life into your love life.
Moreover, being mischievous does not mean you have to be clumsy. You can be decent in your approach and yet be passionate with him. Men admire women with a strong personality, and though they enjoy dirty jokes in romance, if you are awkward with your behavior, he may stop respecting you.
Most women are still uncomfortable with dirty talk, and on the contrary, men have an attraction for it. In fact, the best way to know how to turn a guy on is to learn the art of intimacy from him. Men can get really close and mischievous without making a woman feel filthy about him.
For ages, women have avoided the chances of trying out new things in a relationship due to societal norms, but at the same time, they need to understand that getting playful and intimate with men is all part of a healthy relationship.
The limitations in mischievous acts is important as most men do not know when and where to stop. As the woman, you only have to set the guidelines for him. If you interact with him on the same terms then he will know how much further he can take things forward with you.
During a session of romance, avoid being conscious in your acts, as that will make him aware of the fact that you are not comfortable and it can also make a guy feel uncomfortable too.
Friday, August 21, 2009
How to Talk Dirty – Useful Tips for You!
Indulging in how to dirty talk is something most women are not comfortable with, but with some simple tips, you can learn the way to your man’s heart with great ease and perfection. You can surprise the man in your life with the 'perfect' words he wants to hear and the moves to set his mood when he is with you.
If you know what he wants at what time, and then be sure that the romantic mischievous acts are the best means to set the mood for him, but if you're trying to be mischievous at the wrong time like when he is not in the mood, you're definitely not going to get any attention.
Also, if he is busy in a poker game or a card game with his buddies and your call for some mischief distracts him, be prepared for some cold reactions from him.
Men are moody, and as a woman, you have to understand that the child in them wants attention from you, when you learn how to talk dirty to him, you will know how to turn him on. However, while working they do not want you to tickle the child in them so to attract his attention, ensure that he is in a relaxed mood.
When he comes back from office, give him the time to relax and freshen up, and if he had a tough day at work, take some time to sit and listen to him instead of throwing a tantrum at him.
Ever wondered about the various aspects that go into making a relationship successful? The right place is one such important aspect which is very important other than these talk dirty to your lover. The bedroom, being the best option, also needs to be decorated perfectly.
Some rose petals, beautiful scented candles, and romantic music; and the floor is all set for you to show him how much you love him. However, make sure that he does not have a headache; or all your efforts will simply go to waste.
With these, how to talk dirty, you will feel more confident and innovative and surely, your man will adore the idea. To download the information, go to this page: http://www.howtotalkdirtytoyourboyfriend.com/
If you know what he wants at what time, and then be sure that the romantic mischievous acts are the best means to set the mood for him, but if you're trying to be mischievous at the wrong time like when he is not in the mood, you're definitely not going to get any attention.
Also, if he is busy in a poker game or a card game with his buddies and your call for some mischief distracts him, be prepared for some cold reactions from him.
Men are moody, and as a woman, you have to understand that the child in them wants attention from you, when you learn how to talk dirty to him, you will know how to turn him on. However, while working they do not want you to tickle the child in them so to attract his attention, ensure that he is in a relaxed mood.
When he comes back from office, give him the time to relax and freshen up, and if he had a tough day at work, take some time to sit and listen to him instead of throwing a tantrum at him.
Ever wondered about the various aspects that go into making a relationship successful? The right place is one such important aspect which is very important other than these talk dirty to your lover. The bedroom, being the best option, also needs to be decorated perfectly.
Some rose petals, beautiful scented candles, and romantic music; and the floor is all set for you to show him how much you love him. However, make sure that he does not have a headache; or all your efforts will simply go to waste.
With these, how to talk dirty, you will feel more confident and innovative and surely, your man will adore the idea. To download the information, go to this page: http://www.howtotalkdirtytoyourboyfriend.com/
Talk Dirty to Him – Be Sensuous to Your Lover
As a woman, you want to be sensuous to your man, but not all women know how to use dirty talk when she is with her man. If you believe that your words have the power to attract him, then it is important that you should be conscious while choosing your words. Being seductive does not mean you have to be cheap. Once you know the tricks of being seductive with him, you will know exactly what to do to lure him towards you.
To be the apple of his eye, you also have to be mischievous and bold when you talk dirty to him, but honestly speaking, very few women would follow that path as they face a certain conflict between their heart and their mind. Try being a bit introspective, and you will know what is more important, and to what extent. Being sensuous is no doubt a necessity to keep a relationship lively, but at the same time, you need to know your limits and set the limits for him too.
Limitations are important only when you are verbally interacting with him, but in the middle of an intercourse session, it is purely love that is expressed, and lovers do not feel cheap even if they indulge in dirty talking. Try to tell him what you would like him to do and see how it brightens up his face with encouragement.
In your attempt to talk dirty to him you can also make him realize your zeal of being in a relationship with him. You can always find some simple ways to be more sensuous when you are with him, in case you are usually uncomfortable indulging in intimate acts with him.
Station yourself in front of your bedroom mirror and practice talk dirty to him by imagining that you are talking to him. This also gives you the scope to correct or to change the way you approach him and the voice and tone you use for romancing with him. These tips to sensuality will surely help you when you talk dirty to him and will boost your spirits as well if you are the typically shy type.
To be the apple of his eye, you also have to be mischievous and bold when you talk dirty to him, but honestly speaking, very few women would follow that path as they face a certain conflict between their heart and their mind. Try being a bit introspective, and you will know what is more important, and to what extent. Being sensuous is no doubt a necessity to keep a relationship lively, but at the same time, you need to know your limits and set the limits for him too.
Limitations are important only when you are verbally interacting with him, but in the middle of an intercourse session, it is purely love that is expressed, and lovers do not feel cheap even if they indulge in dirty talking. Try to tell him what you would like him to do and see how it brightens up his face with encouragement.
In your attempt to talk dirty to him you can also make him realize your zeal of being in a relationship with him. You can always find some simple ways to be more sensuous when you are with him, in case you are usually uncomfortable indulging in intimate acts with him.
Station yourself in front of your bedroom mirror and practice talk dirty to him by imagining that you are talking to him. This also gives you the scope to correct or to change the way you approach him and the voice and tone you use for romancing with him. These tips to sensuality will surely help you when you talk dirty to him and will boost your spirits as well if you are the typically shy type.
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